Nigerian Lady identified as Soribe O Stella has taken to her social media page to narrate how a lady broke up with her broke boyfriend not knowing the guy’s plans for her .
Soribe O Stella wrote ;
Its almost a month since I sat down to write. that’s because of two things; writers block and preoccupation. I won’t consider myself a writer, I’m just someone who brings my imagination to life, but lately, there’s no imagination, its more or less blank, like a robot that has been programmed to do the same thing , everyday. Its a bit tiring, but its all for the hustle.
I want girls to normalize this: Having a boyfriend doesn’t automatically mean he’d be responsible for every expense you make in your life. Yes, he can help out OCCASIONALLY. Yes, the key word is occasionally, not everytime. These days ehn, the way girls, especially Abuja girls bill guys ehn, Chei.
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I was sitting with two guys yesterday at work and we got talking. Talk dey bring talk and we started talking about girls and how they billed them and still cheated when they couldn’t provide..
“Guy, we bin dey love up o before but based on some kin matters, we comot hand. Looking back sef, I no fit believe say na me dey beg this girl make she dey with me. Everywhere bin good before, Na as things no dey like before, this girl attitude just change. Everyday, different cars dey drop am for front of our house. The one wey pain me pass be say she dey give me money. I dey try look for job everyday because I be man and e dey somehow make woman dey feed you. This girl no dey gree me touch am, she talk say I no get anything to offer. E pain me, I swear, because I get plans for her, I swear. If no be say things spoil, I for dey cash out by now. I never cheat on this girl, I dey beg am, I never beg any girl for love but based on say I value am, I beg am but she no even look my side. I think one of her sugar daddies rented an apartment for her. Up till tomorrow , I still dey pray for her. I pray make Baba bless my hustle , because for this country, certificate no mean anything because if you no get connection , you no fit get job.” All this while , I was listening. Then, I asked “if she comes back to you, will you take her back, maybe give her a second chance? Even God go vex for me say I give am second chance. Na only God fit give second chance, na why him be God. Even if I accept her, I can’t bring myself to love her, check am guy, after everything she put me through. I bin dey think say heartbreak na chaise, until e knack me, I no fit chop, na cry I just dey cry, so teh my guys dey beg me. I bin get big plans for her but she wasn’t patient , not one bit. Even the world would be mad at me sef..
Omo , good men are hard to find ooh.. Women are worse. There are good women out there oh, but the bad ones dun overshadow them. What are you looking for in a man old enough to be your dad? E no dey irritate you sef? Because of money? Will you die if you work for your money, rather than doing keziah, osho free…
You are not entitled to anything. Because he’s dating you, doesn’t mean you’re automatically entitled to it.. All these men you’re seeing, most of their ways aren’t pure. These old men that are rich like young bloods. These men use young girls to refresh and renew themselves. They lure girls with material things, once you enter their car, them dun jazz you, and just like that you’re gone o.
Material things worth nothing. Its better to stay with one person that is still hustling. Both of you should hustle. Trust me, even if the guy no love you before but he sees what you’re doing and how strong your hustling spirit is, trust me, he’ll start including you in his plans. Nothing is permanent. All these material things are good oh, gifts are nice, yeah, fantabulous, but don’t prioritize them, because vanity upon vanity, all is vanity..
Rather than leaving that guy, be the push and support he needs (only if he deserves it). Take for instance 2baba and Annie, they’ve come a long way. She was there when Innocent Idibia had nothing. We all knew her from African Queen video. Up until tomorrow , 2baba no dey use am joke, because he knows what she has gone through for him… No because of material things lose man wey you suppose be with, then when you come dey reach 35, every year, you go carry yourself go Shiloh. No!!. Wise up, my girls, wise up!! 👌🏻❤
Cc: Soribe O S
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