Big Brother Naija star Bamike Olawunmi Adenibuyan, popularly known as BamBam, has narrated her traumatic childhood experience.
The reality TV star and mother of two, in a quite touching video she shared online, disclosed that she was sexually abused as a child by her nanny.
She said the abuse happened from the age of 2 until she was 8, and she could n’t confide in her parents because the nanny threatened her.
According to her, the abuse left her with trauma that she still has to deal with now that she’s married.
She explained that the nanny used to make her suck her breasts and masturbate with her fists.
Speaking further, BamBam revealed that she was raped a few times by men she dated in the past.
She wrote ;
I Was Abused by a Nanny as a child
between the ages of 2-8. “Part 1” (part 2 is on next post)
#letchildrenbechildren
she used my fist to masturbate and forced me to suck her breast while at it, it has affected me in different ways , I have also been raped a few times as a young girl, I wasn’t ready to have sex with some of the guys I dated in the past, so they forced themselves on me. durring sex some things trigger trauma I didn’t know wasn’t dealt with, I have gotten help, I still get help.
Look sex MUST be consensual even in marriage! Sex must be consensual at all times! Don’t manipulate a mind into it! Not to talk of children?!!!
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I stand against PEDOPHILIA CHILD TRAFFICKING, CHILD MOLESTATION AND ABUSE/ SEX INDOCTRINATION OF ANY-FORM!
Hurt and mentally sick people hurt other people! That nanny was clearly abused or possessed and felt it was okay to do all she did to me! We have sick people making laws to permit their sick orientations! Make it stop!!!
I know some vile mouths and sick hearted people would say rubbish and make unrelated comments! Some may spin this out of context, some may feel I should have been quiet, Y’all are the major cause of the problem in this world, abused people are committing suicide and some are abusing other people!!!! I owe nobody any explanation! I’m doing my bit, if you care, let’s go!
For the ones with the fear of God, let’s come together and build a community to protect each other and our children from these predators! Let’s do our bit to contribute to healing this dark world let’s do real kingdom work!
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